The reliable test

If there is one common thing which all the people I met possess, that would be their intention to retaliate when something against their opinion is blatantly spoken. I don't expect everyone to accept everything spoken against their idea of something. But, tolerance at even the smallest level is highly essential. After all, the whole nation is running on tolerance. I had a tough experience with one of my friends. It's very hard to bring her down on your point since she locks up herself all the time with her rules and philosophies. But, I managed to knock at her head after she hauled me over the coal which is her trademark activity. I guess I would never give in. But, I saw my efforts go down the drain when, in the end, she said 'Whatever. I believe what I told still sounds sensible’. Nobody would wish to receive such a reply when what is considered as the last best thing in this world happens. The issue we were discussing was more like calling black white. And that's exactly what she was doing, almost. It was very clear that she was wrong. But, to understand what was running in her mind, I had to throw few statements that made her word wrestle with me. And even now I won't renounce. You can read a mind at two instances. One, when it is completely broken down sentimentally. Two, when it's totally on fire. The second instance works perfectly regardless of the situation. You can be sure that whatever a person who is completely apprehensive or furious tells is nothing but pure truth. So, if you want to know the real being below the skin, just throw a spark at him/her at the appropriate situation and you'll have your test results. Now you would know where that person keeps you with respect to him/her!

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Newton's 3rd law

Now, everyone knows that 'Every action in this universe has an equal and opposite reaction'. Newton knew this long back even before someone could imagine the existence of something called an action or force. But, there is something Newton didn't figure out. His law is not applicable only to all those forces, action and other physics-oriented stuff. But, the rule holds sound when it is taken closer to relationships. Few days back, I managed to create a short message that puts Engineers way above Management graduates, though these two belong to two different graduation levels. But, as an Engineer, I find no sensible reason to opt for Management studies for specialization since what we learn in 4 years of Engineering course does not only include the making, know-how and understanding of the processes involved in creation but, it has also taught us how to 'MANAGE' and control the processes when they go wrong. Now what do you call Engineering? Engineering Management? One of my friends, who is a Management aspirant, was agitated by the message and today in the morning, I received a message from that friend which tried to mock Engineers but terribly failed in the attempt. I found it to be a response for the message which I sent few days back. Here, what we have are two ideologies that don't intersect anywhere. The message I received, though flatly white, carried with it the same vigor and force as my message, I suppose, did. This is where Newton enters the stage. If you want to move someone psychologically and find out whether they are stable to stand opinions that slap what they carry in their minds, tell them something which you think would arouse them. If they react to your move, they are psychologically vulnerable. If this doesn’t happen, you can be sure that you have made your mark against someone who is mentally strong and also be sure that the person would definitely pounce back hard on you when you least expect it with a colossal killer instinct. And now it’s your turn to plan properly and take your stride. This takes your relationship with the person involved to the next step in the ladder. But, if you insist in having a good relationship with the person, see to that you stay parallel to him/her so that it won’t be you or that person who would elevate, but it would be the relationship that gains some life.

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Welcome..

Psychology. Is that word really worth blogging about? To find an answer, one must understand what psychology is all about. It's all about everything around us and the way we perceive things and the happenings around us. Understanding the environment within which you are placed depends on what is considered as a psychological relationship. Don't we assume, or rather believe, that basic understanding is what a relationship requires to thrive? Our bond with everything that surrounds us is more like a relationship that needs a good understanding for the betterment of the same. Human psychology defines psychology as something that needs more scientific explanations and high degree terms without which it would sound really absurd, as it does now. I should accept I can't dare step into the scientific part of psychology, which is exactly what psychiatrists do. The psychology I am talking about comes from a common man's vision. If your interest in psychology drives you hard to search for some instants that give you a better understanding of people, then it's better to do what I've decided to do. Frame your ideas through a blog! That's exactly what I've planned to do.

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